Mar 31st, 2021 | Leykis 101

HER PROBLEMS ARE NOT YOUR PROBLEMS Many men who are getting fucked and sucked by a woman end up feeling obligated to help her with her various problems: financial, family, mental illness, PMS, other men's children, and more. Your Professor has some advice for you.

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HOUR 1

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Submitted by UncleKenta on

I have one brother and one sister from my biological parents. My dad also had another 3 kids from a previous marriage. We knew those 3 other half-siblings growing up, they'd visit us, we'd hang out at family events etc. It was never a problem for us. Our relationships were not super close, but friendly and amicable. We still keep in touch with one of them.

My biological dad died in 2005. My biological mother died in 2010. Both were more than 70 years old when they died.

Well, after my parents had died, my brother sister and I, found hand written letters from a biological sister we never knew about.

As best as we can deduce and speculate, our dad must have been still married to his previous wife, when he knocked up our mom with her first child. My mom was Mexican and yep, very Catholic. It looks like my mom was convinced, or maybe forced, to give her first child away. This would have been in the early 1960's. We don't know for sure. But I do know what the Catholic church likely would have told my mother.

All we do know for sure, is what is written in those letters of our unknown eldest sister. The pain and suffering she went thru when she tried to find and connect to her(our) parents as a teenager. She was denied access to us siblings, and we never knew her. To this day, we don't even know if she is still alive. I have tears in my eyes having to think about this again, but it is what it is, and it hurts. It would be better if we never knew, I guess is what I'm trying say. It's just awful to think about.

Parents: For the sake of ALL your children, please burn and get rid of all the evidence before you die. Including any nude photos and dick pics. I wish is was joking, but I am not. And people wonder why I am a misanthrope and an atheist. Humans are one fucked up weird animal.

Submitted by 5678fredginger on

Tom, this was a fantastic topic and teaching opportunity. I've been listening to you for over 30 years. I'm now 68, no wife, no debts, a few million in the bank, thanks to your teachings, want to retire but having a hard time giving up say, $200k per year, I think it's called FOMO, help us who can retire how to do it, how did you do it?